Polyamory & Types

Definition:

The concept that one is able to deeply love, be intimate with, or just be in a true meaningful touchy-feely relationship with more than one person within that one's same current flow of life.

Spiritually, it's the awareness that you are love flowing, rather than it being something to look for in people or only to reserve it for one particular for as much as the flow deems and changes things.....This type of love however is just about loving the way God actually loves, which is "holistically", with whomever coming to meet, be that loving someone while there is another currently out of sight whom you love just as much, or just loving all sides of a person, yet showing it in different ways........It just goes to whatever extent or depth that feels comfortable or safe which depends on the occasion or circumstances, with the awareness that one can only genuinely love like this as a natural result of fully accepting and loving all of one's entire self first, which makes one's heart fill with so much love energy that it is almost pouring out and ready to release on the next opportunity of interaction with a person or thing...............It also means that the spiritual person looks at all of the opposite sex as just one person, and can treat that one person like he or she is also the same as all of the other men or women being present.........After departing from one, once the spiritual person meets another it's like meeting the same person again with the same amount of love to give to that person, but if the person is that much different than the other person, then the spiritual person just takes it like that same person is just in different mood and must be considerate of that mood (balancing out the amount of love to give respectively)..............In this way, when seeing that person as the same, then that prevents guilt from creeping in about another's possible envy towards showing love to the present one, and since we are all in essence the same - since we are all this whole God anyway (union-consciousness) then in actuality it's true, so it is like meeting that same person but just in a different mood, or maybe even in the exact same mood - that's possible too

This is the "level" order of the polyamorous ladies who can be in my life, might they be spiritual polyamorists or besides spiritual, and also my other polyamorist terms below them, so in this, a lady can go from being my: 

Open Love Friend - (Please see more about it on "This Typer" page) -  Such ladies are still my regular friends until they are aware that I'm a spiritual polyamorist, and that it occurs we are in bodily contact with each other for the intent of pleasuring each other in some way like: deep rub type hugs, massaging, and lip kissing, then it's just an automatic becoming of one even if we decide to take a seasonal break from touching each other or if she says "let's just go back to being regular friends", one deep touch is all it takes and she stays my open love friend until she says she wants to end everything in which I only determine by the erasing of her phone number, which also means that a lady is only my open love friend if I have her phone number and we already know what it's like to deeply touch each other, so if she is out of phone contact then she can only be either my Playmate (be it on love or sex level, and to call her "baby", casually), or a Possible Friend, and even a Possible Associate to me, and being playmates can become over with if out of each other's sight to the extent of a season change........It's also possible that any "Ex" whatever to me can come back into my life some how in another season and freshly start as my associate or friend until we deeply touch again, and THEN possibly

 - to being this one's -

Open Dear Love / Dear Friend  -  a particular lady of my open love friends who for some natural or set up reason be it for business or choosing to live together that this is the one I'm spending most of my availabilty and/or energy than with the others, but we can still be possibly holding back on having sex with each other.......Most importantly, the two of has ether a child of ours, but it can be that she has one while I'm ether of one, and I step-father the child, or it can be that we decide to adopt children..........yet this is a semi-flexible title, and for calling it an Open Relationship..........she can suddenly just go back to being my open love friend and one of the other ladies in my life can suddenly become my Open Dear Love, though only one lady can naturally turn out to be my Open Dear Love amongst the other Open Love Friends as the lessers in connection with me, so this means that if there are two that I seem to be mostly with in comparison to the rest of them, I either have to determine which one I'm actually in greater feel of experiences with by using my intuition, or go by which one I have the most chemistry with by energy feel, and then call that one lady this, or if it's complex to determine just call them all my open love friends - yet forget about me actually counting all of the get-togethers (too much weight on the head, lol)......Yet, she's only my Dear Friend if we are completely keeping our hands off of each other and staying Platonic Friends just for helping each other out in this living arrangement way, and I can only have either one of these in my life during the same exact part of life..........Either my dear friend becomes my open dear love if we start touching each other for pleasure purposes, or another lady becomes my open dear love for some reason, leaving my dear friend to go back to being my friend.........Also, the purpose for me calling any lady one of these is just to know that we are more special for each other than the rest in our lives and be able to communicate that distinction to others, and also making it that I casually call either my Dear Friend or Open Dear Love, "dear"........therefore, I want it to be that even casually I just call an Open Love Friend by her first or nick name........beyond this, a lady can go from one of THESE

- to being one's -

Maiden Queen (to call her precious, casually)  -  on first hand, it's the first lady in my life to make me a father having our first child together......she becomes my Maiden Queen and me her Maiden King initially, and call it an Open Relationship........however, on the second hand, she remains my Maiden Queen and me her Maiden King if we either insist on living separately, especially in the case of our child only living with one of us, or I'm making it that we call each other these if one of us decides to separate from either our living together or from each other totally - either to portray what isolation, friendship, open love-friendship, or an open relationship is - she still remains my Maiden Queen and me her Maiden King throughout the rest of our lives.....or she can go from being THIS 

- to being this one's -

Queen (to call her honey, casually)  -  which is: choosing for us all (including the baby) to live together in harmony to make me her King.......this term is stable, and for calling it an Open Royalship which immediately ethers any Open Relationship that I can be in.........It's dynamic in that only one lady in my lifespan can be my Queen, and even more so, if I hear her call any one of her open love friends or guys in her life her King (or honey) that's when I have to separate from the living arrangement, and say to her, well let him come step in to this house and me out, then we can remain just a Maiden Queen and Maiden King to the polyamorous level that suits us both, until you change your mind and decide that you are ready for me to be your only true King for the main purpose of taking care of our own blood child and raising the child with the most natural essence of our souls, in teaching of our collective morals and knowings about life up to the king soul potential of knowledge and wisdom our child is already naturally in tie with........Therefore, the type of polyamory I'm choosing to live out only allows for one Queen and one King in a lifespan......we can only downgrade to a Maiden Queen and King, and even such possibility of me having both an Open Dear Love and a Maiden Queen or Queen as it stands (within what is standing upon asking in a certain instance) is to remain in the ether......Once I get either of the two (Maiden Queen or Queen), my Open Dear Love goes back to being my Open Love Friend.......so what happens if I get another lady pregnant or if another man gets her pregnant one may ask........Well let's start with me getting another pregnant in THAT

- one becomes this one's -

Maiden (to call her madamme, casually)  -  which is: one of my open love friends who gets pregnant by me when I have either a Maiden Queen or a Queen in my life, and either refrains from moving in with my Queen and us, or is less than ready about living together with me and my next child that she is the mother of......this is a flexible title.......I can have more than one Maiden as it stands.........but one of those maidens have the option

- to become this one's -

Princess (to call her sweetie, casually)  -  which is a lady who joins me, my queen, and child or children in living all together.....I want her to call me her Prince......this is a flexibe title also.............Mind you though, it's ether for a Princess to step into the position of becoming my Queen, though SHE

- can become this one's -

Main Princess (to call her sweetheart, casually)  -  a semi-flexible title........which is a lady who decides for our child and me to live together while a Maiden Queen exists in my life, or just after a Queen decides to leave me by finding out that another lady is pregnant by me, and that lady decides to take her "mothering-the- child" position to become a legal Step Mom living together with us.........However, I want to call her my Main Princess, and for her to call me her Main Prince......In another part of my life it is possible to have another Main Princess other than the first............then something like this can occur, WE

- can agree to create a -

Poly-Circle Family  -  this is EITHER,

when another lady or another man decides to come in and live with us.......in this case, I'm only allowing for one extra man in my house for reason of "how us men are, and how we can get, in general" and he can only come in to live with us bringing a lady in with him just to keep the balance in our polyamorous circle we are forming - then in our house their titles become Main Prince and Main Princess who are able to swap with us - his lady for mine (Straight Swingers) - if that ever naturally occurs, ether it being an intention - has to be that we just flow naturally or spontaneously into it,  AND

I'm only allowing up to three more ladies in this house (seven people maximum for the house, excluding the children), but they can come in without a man except that the first one must come in with another lady who is okay with living around polyamorists.......and the last lady I'm allowing for is a peace-keeper type of lady who genuinely wants to take on this role - preferrably a Spiritual Polyamorist with a degree or expertise in Authentic Psychology who's on some other wavelength than in close relationship with us - only for living with us - for compensation or freely doing so, while having her man or men outside of the house who can come in occassionally to visit and them two make love in their room, but ether for sleeping over........Most ideally, that man can live next door to us, having his own poly-circle family or ether that.........then the titles go as follows - the first two ladies are my Open Love Mates (to call either one "love", casually) until the possibility that I impregnate them, then they become my Princesses (yet if they leave the living arrangement, whether with our children or ether that, then they downgrade to Maidens).......then there's the seventh peace-keeper lady who is our Platonic Angel (to call her angel, casually, and seven is a divine number - that's the reason for me making this the maximum for a household), and it's also ether of me wanting more than one Platonic Angel in my house, at least as it stands, but some lady can take her position as a Platonic Angel as she leaves out for any reason being it for absolutely keeping away or just for a space breather,   OR

it can involve the case that one of my Maidens decides to come live with us to become a Princess of the house.......she can either come in with her child of mine or ether that, yet despite that she still remains a Princess........Therefore, in the event that she comes before the Open Love Mates or the Platonic Angel, it also creates the opportunity for her to just "be love", and while the four of us are swinging, she can lovingly (without envy) baby-sit the children either in another part of the house or elsewhere,  OR

it's the case that I have a Queen who gets pregnant by another man, and he agrees to come live with us because of this, but only while it's still open to be regarding a man living there - he becomes the maximum man the house can hold.....She also has the options to either keep the baby with us, or let the man take care of it somewhere outside of our house,  AND

If by some chance those outside of our poly-circle family want to just visit occasionally and have an orgy with us then they must be coming in as couples already and proof that they actually are - an ideal place to meet such couples are at couples-only swingers bars or clubs.......And they must be into a spiritual orgy, in order for me to participate in it, whether they deeply or only slightly believe in god - if they refrain from sitting down to connect with the divine while in a spiritual circle on one visit, then that's cause for me to refrain from getting into any type of orgy with them on another visit........I can just leave the room and let them do that on their own........However, if they accept it, once they start becoming more comfortable with the holding hands spiritual connection circle without neccessarily having sex afterwards, then on each visit we can take it a step closer to a deeper intimate connection to eventually get into the full orgy act on a particular visit.......Simply, it needs to progress naturally for it to be truly in flow with the divine, besides this: it's the first visit, we pray, we connect, then we totally forget all about our prayer and go straight into hard-core sex.......that's off of being divine about things - it has to be that they're feeling that genuine connection to the cosmic and more about the power and potential of love - rather just sex......If I sense that the flow is out of natural rhythm, that there's a lack of genuineness in it, or it's of silent prayer rather than of chanting a mantra, then I need to cut out of the spiritual orgy...........despite this though, I just want to keep it clear that I am able to get into a regular orgy (at least 4 within it to form an even circle)......sure I am, but it has to be a balance between the two types of orgies per get together, or I need to cut out on any more orgies........so what if children come out of this, one may ask - THEN 

- all of the children become the offspring of our -

Circle  -  any one who lives with us who are other than my real family members, and any child from any man or lady that lives with us - that is what I am choosing to refer to them as.........If someone asks me, "Who is that person?" ..... I can say, "That's my circle member" ...... and specifically, it can be that - This Queen is my Circle Member, or That Main Prince and his child by that Main Princess are my Circle Members, - though they are other than my family members.........My direct children are also my family members, yet they are also my circle members.......their blood children are ether of being my family members, but they are my Circle Members........Also, since I'm straight, I'm refusing to say, "That guy is my Main Prince"......rather, I want to say, "That guy is the Main Prince of my circle...........the same applies to his Main Princess......she is ether of being my Main Princess - so out of respect to him I want to call her "The Main Princess of my cirlce", and in the case that it starts off with me and my main princess inviting another couple in, then they become the God Prince and Princess of the house, but in the case that I'm with an Open Dear Love and a couple moves in with children, then this is ether of being a Poly-Circle Family - me and my Open Dear Love must have children and become either King and Queen or Main Prince and Princess in order for me to start using the other titles, so we can just stick to saying something like this: that's my Open Love Friend's Special Love and their child is ether to us........going back to having a poly-circle family though, once blood children are in our house

- we can call each other these -

Father,  Mother,  God Father (Main Prince or God Prince),  God Mother (Main Princess or God Princess),  Care-Taker (princess),  Guardian (open love mate),  Guardian Angel (platonic angel),  Son,  Daughter,  Sister,  Brother,  God Son,  God Daughter,  God Brother,  God Sister  -     

My Son / My Daughter to the Care-Taker, Guardian, and Guardian Angel is their Circle Son / Circle Daughter...........Their Blood Sons or Daughters to mine are their Circle Brothers and Sisters.........Any outside of the household, those Sons and Daughters are our Son's and Daughter's Cousins, and to the Father and Mother (Me and My Queen or Main Princess) they are our Maiden Sons and Daughters........To the rest they are just simply their God Sons and Daughters.......All of my real family members to any one in this household or to their blood line outside of the house, or to those polyamorists in my family who are still ether of having a queen with at least one other polyamorous member living in their household (by proof), just simply add the word Kin to the actual title......like for example, a brother to one's son and daughter are their Uncle, but in this case I'm choosing to say that he is your Kin Uncle (Real Uncle).......only a brother of mine who participates in creating a poly-family can become my son's Uncle (Actual Uncle).....where as the Main Prince of My brother's house becomes my son's God Uncle.......I can call my real father my Kin Father, which to my children is their Kin Grandfather, but only after I get my Queen - until then, he is only their grandfather, and since it's too much on me to add so many "greats" to grand father, I'm choosing to add a number plus backin - Great becomes One-backin and Great Great becomes Two-backin (like how many back).........if it's of kin you add "in" to the end of it  -  if of poly-circle, then it's just the number plus back, for instance.......My Real Great Grand Father to my son in our poly-circle is their One-backin Grand Father........but if I ever become the father of a father of a father then I potentially become the children's One-back Grand Father..........the Father of a Father is their Grand Father..........Moreover, in the event that I leave a poly-circle family to go create a new one, all the princesses living there become my maidens, but the titles for the kids remain the same, unless I find out that they are ethermore a poly-family, then I have to add Kin titles of my children with them, and Maiden next to the rest of their titles................ Please readers, feel free to converse with me for further terms that can branch out from these - this is as far as I'm going with it as it stands, and if something happens that a poly-living arrangement is over with then we all go back to calling each other by common law terminology, BUT

- what about -

Last Names  -  everyone has the freedom to keep their last name as, change it to, change their child's last name to, or keep it the same as, whatever they choose.......they are still actually in the "Ay-Om" circle, but ideally (besides neccessary), I want us to all come to an agreement that all of the children living with us take on the last name of the head man of the house hold......however, it's besides what matters to me that any of the ladies change their last name to the man's last name ........ Even more so, when the kids are able to maturely make their own decisions, then we can allow them to change their full names to whatever they wish......Their first names is choosing one that add Yang or Yin, meaning Male or Female.  Their last names can include the last part of this QuaYang's last name, and just add 2 or 3 letters of each one's choice, but at least containing a vowel like using number words for example "Ay-Om-Bi". It can also be for example one who's last name is Johnson then becomes "Ay-Om-Jos".  A female who is a Samantha Drexler can become, SamYin Ay-Om-Dre. Youtube Search "Gomadec Names" for other name possibilities beyond just Om; this is only after humanity can agree to go with this Actuality Naming System == Furthermore, this is besides a marriage - it's besides any legal binding or ceremony - they can feel free to change it back or to a different one if they wish

Mind you, these are all hypothetical situations and scenarios.......It's off my mind to expect any of these to come true.........it has to be something that naturally or spontaneously occurs........these are just the terms and titles I want to use if they become so.